In between forgiveness and hatred lies a sacred kind of silence that, if or when disturbed, will only prolong the agony, anger, and hurt.
It is in needing this space (that sometimes we forget that we CAN have) that we think we ought to forgive quickly and easily.
You don’t always have to do what you don’t want to do. There’s a certain freedom in that thought that can hopefully, somehow help support you in your healing.
We are all healing in ways we cannot even imagine. Burdens and traumas buried from years past that have somehow emerged as whole new levels of devils to conquer.
And it doesn’t stop there. Because as long as we simply forget and never acknowledge, it will only grow stronger in us like a parasite sucking the very life from our bodies…
The only way to your destination is through your experience and, whatever experience is handed to you is yours to handle and also yours to learn exponentially from.
It’s like solving problems. You don’t always want them easy. The best feeling of victory is always one that comes from having to conquer a problem you once thought was insurmountable.